If humans require full bellies before they deserve access to connection and creativity, then Maslow’s hierarchy into a gatekeeping device.

The difference between a coping behavior and a caring behavior is how you feel when it's done.

Sometimes the same activity can be coping in one context and caring in another. And sometimes you get to meet Andy Cohen for the plot.

maintaining boundaries can prevent burnout and exploitation. Less obvious but more important, boundary maintenance prevents demoralization.